Wow, all that and no blow up! I'm glad you're taking time to process things. I agree with NYS in that marital counseling is hard until the individual issues are out a little. The plus you have (that we didnt) is that you both seem to be verbal enough to get the issues out on the table to be dealt with. I'd be careful though.. with your H's anger things might get tough at home between sessions because they are likely to make him unhappy if the MC focuses on things he needs to change. I say that because of the anger management issues I had over H's A. The MC seemed to multiply my anger when the MC tried to point out where I was at fault. I've had to accept that I share a portion of the blame to even begin to work through the anger and deal with my part of our problems. Maybe IC can help your H with that.
