Heather,

My two cents: I agree with NY and Jabez. Jabez's approach sounds like a good one because it's not confrontational. And putting things that way you get to say that you were working hard to get results, but didnt see the results you needed to see, without actually saying he didnt try. If he can't see how making you sleep in the other room, refusing to kiss you or ride in your truck just throws up a wall, he's clueless. Why keep trying if you get no where?

Your H frustrated the heck out of me! Good luck GF. It's NOT you.. it's him. He has a warped perspective for sure!

Sheila