I've read your posts a couple of times and havent been able to reply because it's so obvious your H is acting abusive towards you and the other's who've posted are giving some great advice. I'm afraid for you and the kids. Your H goes off at the drop of a hat with no regard for anyone. The scene at the mall IMO is way way way over the top. Not that he got frustrated, but dragging your kids to the car and leaving you? He's allowing his anger and need to control you to take over both of your lives.
You know all of that. I just want to say that I'm amazed at how you're handling this, but like Al says, there are people who can help. Abuse isnt just the woman whose husband beats the crap out of her. It's for the woman who's trapped taking verbal, and emotional abuse and being blackmailed with her children too.
