Heather...my first thought when I read about the bag at the airport thing was just like Al's - "what a jerk". And I guarantee you, anyone watching you struggle with that bag and a baby while he strolled along with only your son on his shoulders thought the same thing. Right there, he is teaching your son how to treat women - in the wrong way! That's the expample he will have growing up. I'm sorry that this is what you are dealing with, and I won't give you any advice either way...just (((heather))).