Quote: Who actually filed or instigated the separation? I could be dead wrong, but I'm putting my money on the idea that it wasn't you.
You're right. I turned down his offer for a "convenience" marriage (don't know if he meant it or not) and said I wanted a real marriage, with both of us fixing what we had done wrong to hurt each other. He said he had absolutely no interest in fixing anything or working to heal our R...he contacted an attorney very shortly after that, and I started to think about moving back toward my family. So I see your point - it's easier when it was out of my hands, and I just had to go along with his decision.
You sound good. You sound like you know what you need to work through and you know what you are up against. Hang in there!
