"I don't care where we go as long as I'm with you guys"

That had to make you feel good! I nice way to start off the holiday weekend!

We'll see how the relationship progresses or backslides once he realizes that I'm not all that receptive to sexual advances anymore. I'm thinking that things will get pretty cold for a while as he tries to get me to "change back" to being willing to have sex.

It sounds like you've prepared yourself for a bumpy ride and its good that you are prepared. It sounds like this is a boundary for you and I don't think that it is unreasonable to be asked t be kissed on the lips before ML and for it to happen in the marital bed and then for the 2 of you to sleep there afterwards.

Stay strong Heather.

Happy Thanksgiving.