Good for you. I gotta think that if you can start to balance the power in your R, it will help you. It doesn't have to be this, but it sounds like something important to you and you have the motivation to stick with it. Establishing a boundary with H can only work in your favor, no matter what he does with it.
He wants to parent our children and make our M as pleasant as possible although it's not a top priority. He says he is not miserable, that he can be happy like this.
Okay, I can maybe buy that. You've got a long row to hoe Heather. Good luck, seriously! Don't stop coming back here for support. I'm glad your brother is going to be nearby, I think that'll be a big relief for you.
I still wouldn't buy a new house. But that's just me.
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