thanks, that love languages thing sounds quite plausible. I will give the first book a try then and see what I can learn from it.
I tried to find out today if W wants a new common project now that the house is done. I told her I understood that my project was just for me but that if there was something which she needed we could try to do it together.
Now, her answer was that she just wants to live in the present, not in the future (meaning like me...?), and that she actually does not have any wishes. I find this odd, first because I always need something to do, second then why was she so grumpy WAW-style yesterday?
I think, she may actually be saying a true thing because she's not really ambitious and usually can be quite content once she's comfortable with her situation.
I start to believe it may be just her wanting not to be bothered with ANY projects, none for herself (apart from her job which she likes) and even less projects of mine.
So there goes the project theory. Good idea but wrong.
Anyway after dicussing this in the morning, we had quite a good day, no tension or anything. Hmmm.
Which leaves me kind of clueless. What else could be the issue which makes her generally grumpy?
