Quote: Me and my H are best together when we're working on something together.
Hello Sheila,
some good food for thought there, thanks, it´s good to read female input to this. I am trying to pick out which things which may apply to my sitch. (And which reminded me that I should really also do my own brainstorming along those lines.)
Unfortunately I definitely do not believe that it was just momentary grumpiness, I saw a few old well known WAW-symptoms lurking ...
Your one idea which struck me is your common project comment. It is certainly true, that my new project is just my project and never interested her. HOwever it almost wholly consumes me right now, so I guess that could also explain her sensing us "being different". I may have to re-identify something which we both want to go for...
You lost me on the bit of love languages. Is that something out of Michelles book ... it has been a while that I read it. What did you mean by love languages?
