Lil,
I'm glad you had a chance to meet another lady with something in common with you.

That happened to me once and I still treasure that friendship. It was like being an alien transported here to Earth and suddenly having another human rip off her mask and reveal that she, too, is an alien. We were in a book club, there were 4 women total, and it turns out that 2 of us were married to LD men. Sure changed my way of thinking about how common this is.

Glad you met up with her and had your experience validated. It helps a lot, doesn't it.

H.