Hey Lil, you asked on your last thread, now locked, how Viagra worked. Well according to the husband it does not work all the time and in fact it does not help the libido, arousal or desire. Basically all it does is to help once arousal is already there. Hey wishing you well however it goes. I just caught my husband doing porn last night, so as I have told you before, since he is LD/ED this is is preferred method of getting off inspite of having a willing partner.