I will continue to DB for awhile, but with my focus primarily on friendship which is really where I need to be with her anyway.
We have hurt each other so much. I need to get to a place where I am truly happy for me, and truly happy for her, even if she is with another man. She deserves peace as much as I do.
And I'm still considering Burgbud's question. Can't hurt to keep those ideas in the back of my mind if they're not interfering with my GALing