Yes I'm a positive thinker. There is another key difference we are 7 years apart. She of course is the older one. The one thing that im noticing the most is that it seems like we always have to impress her new clients and other co-workers and that is starting to get old very quick.
The success of her new job monetary wise is not that big of a deal because we are both very fortunate and blessed not have monetary issues. We both contribute equally with money.
I guess it just seems that she might be outgrowing me due to the new job.