Well for most of us DBers I guess one of the things we all want to here I heard last night. I gave my W "The Five Love Languages" a couple of weeks ago to read but she hadnt touched it yet, till yesterday. She stayed home all day and I guess was bored enough to start reading, she called me at work to tell me she was enjoying the book. Well I also had a couple of other books in my night stand drawer that she decided to look through as well (not Devorce Remedy, I havent shared that with her yet) including "She Comes First" wich is a great book on pleasuring your W, I figured since I was improving myself as a person, husband and a father why stop there? Anyways she said she had some things to talk to me about after we got the kids put down, I didnt like the sound of it but that just shows I guess im still a bit insecure about our R. She said, "I just wanted to thank you for all the effort youve put into our marriage, for all the changing youve done and I never thought youd do this for us". "I though we'de be just like all the other couples you see that just divorce and go on with there lives but then you started reading and making changes and have become such a great husband and father". She also said she was out of the marriage and had moved on emotionally so she feels bad cause its taking her so long to recomit and put in the effort I have and that all my changes are still a bit overwhelming for her. She also said how lucky we are to have each other and how much she loves me, those are words that I'll appritiate hearing everytime I do for the rest of my life. Ive just go a hole new appritiation for having the love of my W and the life we've built togeather and i'll never take it for granted again. God I hope everyone in here is able to experiance the changes in there M's that I am right now, it truely is worth fighting for!!!
