Thanks for the input slowly and I will say I think your onto something with the not trusting her thing. Its not that I dont trust what shes doing cause I do trust her to go out with her freinds ect.....Not sure why it is but at times I just dont trust what she says. She does seem to want to make sure I know were shes at and what shes doing so im sure she senses I have some trust issues with her to certain extent. Thing is I dont care what she does I trust her and if she did do somthing its on her at this point and im not gonna worry about it, plus I just dont see it happening. The way things may be moving to fast is... just a couple of months ago we were done, finished, over and now were buying a new car together saying ILY's and going on sorta as if. I dont know mabye (probebly) its just me being insecure or reading into things. My old ways would be to not meet her needs emotionally, take her for granted and just not being an overall happy person like I am now. Thats just not gonna happen and im prepared for it to take some time to prove it to her.