Hi blk - Reconciliation can be tough, as many of us here in Piecing discover To be honest, I sometimes think it is the ongoing maontenance that any relationship needs.
Quote: She said some things that concern me and mabye its just her trying to put me in check or sorta control the situation as its mabye moving too fast for her?
Sounds like you do not trust her, could this be a signal she is picking up? In what way do you think things are moving too fast? Would it make sense to slow things down a little?
Quote: since ive made so many changes I guess its confusing her and shes sorta worried i'll go back to the old me
What was it about the old you that she is most afraid of? Consistency is perhaps the only way to show her that your changes are for real. This one definitely takes time !
To be honest, I sometimes think it is the ongoing maontenance that any relationship needs. 
