Quote: Really need some advice here, or input on what she may be feeling at this point.
I understand W's talking about D as a possibility is bothering you.
Well it just means, that the D-thought is still with your wife. I would not be concerned though. Honestly, does the question about M being right ever go away, for any of us? I don't think so. M cannot be taken for granted as many of us here have learned.
So I see that remark of your W just as an overly honest reply. One normally does not talk about D-thought so openly but with a C? To the opposite, I see it as a positive sign that she agreed to reduce the C-frequency.