Quote: sexual innuendo, confidant humor will not incite her to attack you. LOL. well sometimes it does, right baltoman?
Interesting event Christmas morning. After D10 shredded through all her gifts, I was in the kitchen and I saw my W approaching me. She came up to me and firmly planted a long loving kiss on my lips and said I love you. Then she said, I'll give you your 'real' christmas present later tonight.
I should have said I wanted to open that present now, right then and there. But it wasn't an option at the time. With a grin, I told her that "that" was a present that I would be looking forward to. Now, in the back of my mind I'll admit that I was a little pessimistic. I knew that we had a very long day ahead of us and would not be home until late that evening. I did however, appreaciate her doing that and verbally sharing her thought. At least she was thinking about it.
So, what happened last night? NULL... Both of us fell asleep on the sofa within 30 minutes of arriving home, while D10 played with some new interactive toy on the TV.
I don't intend to raise a "stink" about it. I fell through on my part and just couldn't for the life of me, keep my eyes proped open and she was pretty much the same. I will insist on "opening that present today". Maybe there will be a "Day after Christmas Special... 2 for 1.
Quote: If she says I dont want to, stop, look at her, then give her a peck say 'ok' or 'ok we will finish this later.' then go do whatever you were doing. Without reactivity.
Blackie,
She has admittted to me at one time that she is an "arousal then desire" type female. So I wouldn't expect to get the 'I don't want to stop' reaction, unless we were pretty much well on our way. But I can see how that approach would really create a lot of desire and build up a boat load of sexual tension. I'll test those waters today and see if I can include something along those lines.
Snook.
"And wrinkles only go where the smiles have been." J. Buffett
