I have seen this reference elsewhere, other places I hang.
What does Ive been asterisked mean? is it bad? I hope so.
and LD men are not comfortable leading, AND do not like the woman to lead, that is quite a problem
They havent learned, or been taught. Environment, conditioning, PC BS, causes them to push it down. Untill as Stig said the hen pecked H runs away to reclaim his masculinity.
This is why the W role is to not constantly nag, 'test', poke, command, wear her H down to a nub. ( a Females role should be to do these things when dating.)
Your right LFL it is a toughie. I said that. trying to get to your H's thru you is nigh on impossible. YOU have to change, not punish him when he is leading, reward good behavior. HP has been down this road for 2 years now? and she has quite a strong inner personality to squelch. she has taken it and aimed it at differnt efforts.
Gel has been doing it for quite a while also. She has years of negative reinforcement to wait for her H to undue. From what I have seen, shes just the woman to do it.
Its a toughie for the HDH's to try to overcome also, and try to implement 180 in being more assertive and leading, when there feminist W are fighting them the whole way with no 'apparent' positve results. ] The fighting is positive though. Its the first step.
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