Quote: -------------------------------------------------------- You suggesting I should consider a different approach? Like leaving her there on the sofa? --------------------------------------------------------
Absolutely. Let her suffer the consequences of her own choices. She went to sleep on the couch after rejecting you, she can remain there until she awakens. I am not talking revenge. I am talking about you stopping the doting. Non-reciprocated caring will leave you being the only one that gives a rip about the relationship, and even worse, it alleviates any discomfort for the non-reciprocating spouse. Don't pull a cover over her either. She can wake up cold.
It isn't your responsibility to get her in the bed. She is an adult. Stop treating her like a china doll.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
