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Because many higher drive spouses don't tell their lower drive spouses. Not telling increases the damage. Ignorance is not bliss. Non-confrontationalism (conflict avoidance) is not the way to approach a situation that is already likely volatile. It may seem counterintuitive, but confrontation, while it may increase tensions, will likely do so only temporarily. Ignoring the problem on the other hand, is paramount to slow certain death of the relationship.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
