Quote: -------------------------------------------- ... She said that she didn't know if I meant ML right after shower or later that evening. --------------------------------------------
From a perspective of viewing your situation from the outside, I simply don't believe her. She avoided doing it with you.
Set a date and see it through. Be SPECIFIC about when, why and who you expect to be involved. Then if she slides, you call her on it. Stop with the tentativeness, put your watermelons on the table and play Gallagher with the 'sledge-o-matic'.
Tell her what you would like. If she says no, ask her for a specific time and date. If she falls through, then you let her know. If she blows then you deal with that in the same straight forward manner. You treat her calmly and with respect, but you don't budge. In the mean time, you start fixing any of your own issues that are contributing to the poor condition of your marriage - and NO, that does not mean you become a house maid. It DOES mean that you start taking care of your half of the marriage.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
