Well busy weekend done and... mission accomplished
If I may quote Mr Hairdog "Lucky Ba$tard"
Saturday, while D10 was gone, my W and I spent the day together out doing some shopping and stuff. We had lunch together at our favorite, Chili's. We had a good time spending some time together. Although I had hoped to return home before D10 got back (yea, I had hopes for a, um... well, you know) but that was not to be. We got back home after 4 pm and just as we walked in the door the phone rang. It was D10, she let me know that I need to pick her up in about 15-20 minutes. Oh well. However, later on that evening, as my W and I went to bed. I kissed her goodnight, as she was falling asleep with the remote in hand. She opened her eyes and said "Aren't we going to do anything"? I said "I thought you were asleep"? She said that she was tired, but asked if I would rub her back for a little. No need to tell me twice. I closed and locked the door, got some nice smelling lotion and following a nice 1/2 hr massage (which to my suprise, didn't put her to sleep), we ML. We left the TV on as selection was perfect. Her favorite, the Celtic Woman concert, on the local PBS station and it make for a nice audio backdrop to the whole scene.
Sunday was a very busy day, up early as usual. After I made a post on ChocEyes thread, I made out the grocey list, went shopping, mowed the lawn, did all the outside Christmas lights and finished just in time to take a quick shower and get dressed up to take D10 to a "My Guy and I", father daughter dinner and dance. When we returned, D10 said she wanted to finish her book, so we did and were done by 8:30 or so. She was so proud of herself and I was too. D10 was ready for bed and asked my W to lay with her awhile. By then I was exhausted and needed to got lay down too. I had planned to watch a series of DaVinci Code programs on the History Channel. I missed the first one and fell asleep I guess shortly after the opening credits.
BF, I know women are ok with the occasional quickie. However, my W and I have (barely) survived on a regular diet this that was more along the lines of the "wify duty" kind of quickie for a very long time. You know, the miserable kind of unconnected, just get it over with encounter. So,I made a mental decision at the beginning of the year, No More. THis is when I began reading SSM and I found this site. So yes, while I sure that she's ok with the quickie. I want to do the things that will build some more emotional connections. I have been taking mental notes on your "attractiveness" and am beginning to appply these. All in an effort to bring some realy togetherness. I'm running out of time here now and I got to go. But I would like to continue later and finish my reply to you with some additional thoughts.
Thanks for your comments BF.
"And wrinkles only go where the smiles have been." J. Buffett
