Snook,

However, the next morning, when we were in the kitchen. I hugged her and told how great that kiss really was last night. She told me that it had really done a number on her and kinda juices going. I said it had a similar/different effect on my too. She asked why I didn't do something about it? I said I didn't know, I was tired, I wasn't sure that was what she intended


Women are ok with quickies too. When she said why didnt you do something, instead of verbally replying why didnt you take her to the bedroom/bathroom, right then and there instead of discussing it?


something to think about for next time.
I saw you take Corris advice about the kissing, good advice from her, good call to try to implement it.

She came over to give me a hug and a kiss and then proceeded to really get into it. I was getting more than just goose bumps. She noticed what she had done to me and played and teased me a little more, knowing I couldn't really do much about it with D10 nearby


Arghh. and right after you said carpe diem. you didnt carpe diem. Your D10 was occupied, are you waiting for the planets to align here or what? It doesnt have to be a perfectly placed. Get down and dirty, man. If she puts up 'resisitance', look at deep deep in her eyes, take a moment just stare and judge.
Is it token resistance, playful flirting, 'testing' your determination, or actual rejection. If it is the first, ignore and plow ahead, have a quickie that leaves her wanting more later on that day. If the later, smile shrug and go play with your D10 or do some time filler.

"If you'd like to have some more of that, you can meet me in our bedroom after dinner

Mmm. good effort. try to make it funny. 'After dinner, I am going to remind you why you married me.' 'Your definitely going to want to leave room for ---------------------------- desert, after dinner. '

I see you having a outcome in mind instead of just leting things happen. I know when things gets messed up for a bit it can be hard to find the flow. Try to let go of the destination, and have fun watching the scenery (flirting, teasing) go by. Look her in the eye. Know that she wants you.



In my mind, quickies are just foreplay for real fcking later on in the day or the next. In my experience they get women physically revved up and thinking about it almost as much as we do, which overheats them pretty quickly.