Last evening was both good but disappointing. I got home and D was finishing her homework, getting ready to go to her Girl Scouts meeting. Quick dinner was on the stove and I was fooling the the A/C. Seems the condensation pan was full and over flowing. While I worked on some kind of solution to clean the drip line to keep water from puddling on the floor. My W offered to take D to her meeting, which is something that I usually do. Since I didn't want to multi task, I was glad she offered and thanked her.
Anyway, after she returned and before our dinner, we were in the kitchen and I gave her a nice big hug. She asked me to rub/scratch her back while we were hugging, so I did. When we were done I looked at her and said "If you'd like to have some more of that, you can meet me in our bedroom after dinner. She didn't say anything, and the look she gave me was uninterpretable. After we finished our dinner and while watching the TV, she said "Well, do you want a quickie or do you want to wait until later". Since I had only about 30 min until it was time to pick up D from her meeting and that wasn't what I had envisioned. I told her "As much as I would really love a quickie, It had been so long since we WL that wasn't what I had in mind. I'll wait until later, if you think that you can stay awake". She said that she'd try.
Later on after D was home and ready for bed... appearently W was too. She was nodding off on the sofa. I sent D to bed and then got W to go to our room to. She said she was sorry, but her new med's was making her really drowsey and she couldn't keep her eye's open. But she did offer an H/J, which I gladly accepted.
Lesson learned ... One in the hand is better than none in the bush...
"And wrinkles only go where the smiles have been." J. Buffett