Choc,

I read and re-read your line about the oxygen mask and it didn't sink in at first . All I kept seeing was a half deflated auto-pilot that needed to be mannually reinflated (below the belt)from a scene in the movie Airplane.

I thank you and the others here for your input as well. The concensus is: Put You Marraige First but Make Time For Both.
Or as Stephen Covey says "Put First Things First"

Last edited by snookchaser; 11/29/05 10:53 AM.
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