Hiya pink - Glad you had a fantastic Xmas, and I wish you an equally fabulous New Year. I think you said it all about the gambling
All I can do is to protect myself finacially and stop enabling him by lending him money.
Although NG's weaknesses have not been as addictive as gambling, I found that the less I asked, the more he told me. Inherent in these cases are two problems, the addiction, and the cover up. IMO, it will be impossible to solve both at the same time, and more often than not, it seems feeling safe to be open precedes finding the cure.
