Well... H turned up on Tuesday as aranged. EARLY He was half an hour early and we had just got in from a very wet and windey walk so we all looked liked scarecrows..not the best way to make a good impression eh?
Anyway the evening went well. (too well in fact as we couldn't get the boys in bed till gone ten)
Wednesday he came over and cooked dinner for me whilst I took the boys to karate. He seemed a little distant. I know he has a couple of things on his mind at the moment so I am truying not to panic too much giving him time and space to get things sorted out at his own pace... It's so horrible when you see your man going into 'his cave' and knowing the best thing you can do is leave him to it. Every instinct tells me to phone him and ask him to talk to me; but I know that, that is the wrong approach.
We have had heart to hearts about making and breaking arangements. He just doesn't see it as the big deal that i do. I have to keep remeinding myself to keep it in proportion LOL. On the grand scale of things it is a little annoyance. I know there are many on these boards who would give their right arm for their H to be late - just so long as he walked through the door.
He was half an hour early and we had just got in from a very wet and windey walk so we all looked liked scarecrows..not the best way to make a good impression eh?
On the grand scale of things it is a little annoyance. I know there are many on these boards who would give their right arm for their H to be late - just so long as he walked through the door. 
