Hello pink - As Betsey said, this thread is cooking on gas
One thing I do notice probably from being ACA is that if people are not nice to him or let him down he doesn't seem to care, it doesn't effect his relationship with them. He gives people chance after chance after chance...
I find myself wondering why this is so. Does H otherwise display a generous and forgiving nature? Or is his expectation of people low anyway? Does he think this is normal, in which case pink, does he expect that you would keep giving him chances no matter how many mistakes he makes? Is his self esteem so low that he believe he deserves nothing better than people letting him down? I ask because I see shades of NG in your H, and honestly, it is an area I have not yet had the courage to go into