H is coming over for dinner tonight. I was planning to talk to him about what he is doing at the moment. Explain to him just how his behaviour is effecting my moods. However, I have done this **so** many times and he just doesn't get it, so I won't bother.
Time to try something different.
I will keep a PMA. Be affectionate. Not let him stay over. (He normally stays over when he comes for dinner.) ( I will make sure I have stuff to do )
He will be expecting me to rake over the week and complain but I don't intend to give him any more attention than he already has had for being annoying LOL