Letting Go and Holding On

[WCW]

Hey! good to see you! That bird gets around! Isn't it great to have feathered friends?

S19 sounds incredibly grown up and responsible. Wow! You should be dang proud!

I just gotta throw in my H's hotel story, pretty much the same sort of thing. One night I told him if he was going to have two women in his life I wasn't going to be one of them. He got all mad at me, said he wasn't staying, he'd just go find a place to park and sleep in his pick up. Well, it was December, frigid cold, he hadn't had an income for 3 months and still had a long recovery period, but he clumped around and threw things together and left. I just sat and watched, if he wanted to go I wasn't stopping him. He went and stayed in a hotel, and the next night came back home, and he knowing that I wouldn't want him to spend money on another hotel, ended up staying home. Saved $50 that night, but did I gain anything in the long term goal?

You sound peaceful with your decisions for the most part, that's really good to hear. Glad you stopped back, thanks.