Hi slowly! I read your posts about Feng Shui and found them interesting. I might have to look for that on the net as something to try. And hiring help is a good idea Have thought about it, but never been able to justify spending the money. Maybe it would be worth the expense to get rid of that stress in our life! Thanks for checking in. The R talk did not go well unfortunately.
I've been surfing the BB and reading your thread, some of Sage's and other's who've been sucessful and admire your patience and perserverence. I don't feel I'm there yet with patience, forgiveness and commitment and am not sure I have what it takes to work all of this out. I know most would be so happy with an H who's returned home and wants to work on the R. I feel bad that I'm constantly reaching a point where I just want to give up because the changes don't seem to be building a better R, they just seem to put H in a place where's he's comfortable being complacent about us. The less I say about what needs to change, the more I GAL and act happy, the less he does to meet any of my needs (it seems if Im happy, he thinks he's doing great!). He seems content with a peaceful emotionally and physically distant R with me. The he becomes content and I become unhappy. Maybe I'm not changing and GAL enough to attract him closer to me. Just not sure!
Have thought about it, but never been able to justify spending the money. Maybe it would be worth the expense to get rid of that stress in our life! Thanks for checking in. The R talk did not go well unfortunately.
