I understand about the time crunch. Thanks for replying and pointing out the positives between me and S19. He really does value what me and H have to say and I know that's a blessing!
I think S19 talked to his GF over the weekend, or maybe she has thought about our convo. We all had a good talk about Christmas plans last night and GF and I were talking about going shopping together. So, we're looking forward to a good break together and maybe the issue of S19's time is behind us for now!