There you are as always with encouragement.. thank you!
At a minimum he worries about it when you're not happy. Which isn't your problem, is it? I mean, you being happy is your problem but not him worrying about when you're not, or feeling guilty about it if you're not. Great point. I was feeling guilty for being a little down last night, but you're right, I'm allowed to have my moods. I bounce back fairly quickly. H is either going to learn that's *normal* or he can keep reacting, but it's his choice and not my responsibility to alter how I feel just to make him comfortable.
Yes, I get your points because you express them so well! And hey.. I'll keep doing what works because if H manages to break your *big* heart, I'm gonna kick his butt..lol
Have you posted on your thread lately? I'll go check.
