Al - Wow, I hadnt noticed how me and H go back and forth on wanting to talk, but that's a great observation. I do want to talk if it's honest, but so far I see empty promises and hearing that is hard. H wants to talk I think, but it's hard for him and he fears my reaction. So yeah, maybe we're both trying hard to stop that vicious cycle. Thanks for pointing that out to me!
VJ - It sounds more believable when the same words come from someone else's S doent it? I remember when Rotzukki posted the same feelings on their thread and I said "wow.. he feels the same way, so it must be true!"
Thanks the support.. the words of encouragement help SO SO much
