Quote: And he said that it was never a choice between me and her, it was more that he was tired of not feeling anything and didnt want to hurt me.
My X was trying to explain this to me just a couple of weeks ago in our talk about OW. He kept saying "she's not better than you, not at all". I didn't get it, but hearing that your H said something similar makes a bit more sense to me now.
I think you are doing great, Sheila. You sound good, you are doing some things to heal, and doing things for each other. Good for you! I'm really happy for you! VJ
