So, how do I say, we need to split but it's OK and I don't blame you, I just accept what you can give and it's not what I need right now without unleashing the anger, promises, etc?
You say it just like that and don't take responsibility for his response. Sucks, huh?
It might help if you consider that it'll probably take him a day or two to digest and come to terms with this. He'll be driven to give you an immediate reaction but that won't be his final thought on things. Give him space to come to grips with what he actually wants to do.
And don't take responsibility for his response. Much as you want to, much as you always have. Let yourself feel a little bad for him if you have to, then quit it!
Glad to hear S19 is so squared away. He gets it mostly from his mom, I'm sure, but his dad must be pretty okay as well.
Have a good day!
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