Letting Go and Holding On

[Confused_in_AZ]

Thanks Piglet2 for the kind words. I really do appreciate it. I see and understand everything that you have shared. This is a very difficult process. I don't wish it upon anyone.

I think my W has that same vision.....waking up with the mountain. Was/is there anything that your H could do to change that view?

I really think that this is what she is facing and is unable to find an answer (I have asked and she says she doesn't know).

Maybe that is the point where both need to step back and realize what is really possible.