Letting Go and Holding On

[Burgbud]

First, this sounded like you're in a pretty good place considering the place you're in (ha! figure that one out). Do you feel like dropping an update on where you are now?

Second,

Maybe he enjoys the chase.. who knows, but he's been more and more in the mood since we've decided that we should go our separate ways for now.

It could also be that he's felt some sort of pressure that's been lifted. I hope you at least let it feel good that he does, in fact, desire you. Even though he has problems with it sometimes.