Lots. It is more about being wasteful, frittering money away tor something that will go to the trash or donation store in a year because it is only used a couple of times.
Quote: but you never did anything to make it change.
I said I was about to leave in Jan 2004. The QVC thing slowed down then almost stopped. Not it is home repairs and furniture, not because we need it, but because we have had the old things 25 years or a new style is the trend.
Quote: So once you’ve done everything you can to fix yourself, to address all the complaints of your spouse
That is mostly what I am doing.
Quote: I see only two explanations – either more time is needed or more pressure is needed
Doing the time with pressure. See NPO's last post to me. It was not easy for him.
