Nop this part is not about me but I would like to know about you. I can imagine the frequency and EC is not going to increase much in general beyond short periods for most of the sex starved husbands here on the forum.
I have not read your old post pre Mrs. Nop cooperating or as she calls it being finally heard. One reason I am asking is because I suspect many of us digher drive people male and female will not make it across that being "heard" point. My question is mostly for the good of the group.
I was wondering how you would have felt or what you would imagine if your LM was frequency was only every two weeks. How would that NOP act, feel today? What would you keep doing, what would have benn an "I tried it and it did not work so i quit."
I know everyone is different but also realize there are things many people want and think many of our reactions to what does or does not happen will be similar.
Back to me: I don’t envision much change in frequency here in Lou land even with me staying out of BB’s spending/seperat accounts. I do see BB being happier and not so negative during sexual encounters. I don’t haven't decided if that will be good enough for me. Sometimes I wonder if I have unrealistic dreams about what I would like from the R with BB.
Answer as you feel is appropriate. The last thing I want to do is creat some tension in your M with Mrs. NOP. You are both valuable to the forum.
