Quote: ------------------------------------------ I don't want to start makingt remarks that she considers put downs. I want to be with some one that I respect. ------------------------------------------
An therein lies the rub.
"Wife, I am really having a hard time respecting you because of your spending habits. Would you be willing to work out a compromise with me so that I don't lose my respect for you?"
How's that?
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.