Hi, Lou.

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I don't want to start makingt remarks that she considers put downs. I want to be with some one that I respect.
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An therein lies the rub.

"Wife, I am really having a hard time respecting you because of your spending habits. Would you be willing to work out a compromise with me so that I don't lose my respect for you?"

How's that?

-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.