Quote: Lou--Do you really think BB will mind if you have coffee with a lesbian friend?
BB is of the general opinion "chat sites" what BB thinks this board is, are nothing but trouble and will site the case where a won had a baby cut out of her, that started out with dog interests. BB goes over board on many things. I am used to some of her overly fearful issues. I used to try to tell BB things that would lessen her anxiety but have decided I was not helping her.
Betsey, thanks for visiting my thread. I think some of the people here should read your thread. You write so well and have articulate friends.
Because you have read so many books, which one (other than DB, PM, 5LL,) would you recommend to a guy (me) who has some traits like MR W. that used to interact with the old/previous version of underdog. (Note to Lou, gosh I can't believe I wrote "old." Betsey might think I am calling her old and I am almost 16/20 years older than she is. Note to self, change “old” to previous)
About SD, Yes she comes across as a very caring person that has a lot of patience and integrity.
You playing for her team? Hay come on Betsey, I read your steamy post about guys! I also see you are very friendly to gay and lesbian people in general and know how to interact with them and have everyone be comfortable.
Quote: If we get to vote
Well you kind of get a vote. My main purpose was to gather opinions and look for problems that I might not have seen. I am an intelligent person most of the times but do realize if I miss some points that are not measurable.
Example; A retired male friend (never married, few girl friends, he mows grass for widow ladies in the neighborhood) was caring for his invalid mother for over a year. She died so I made lunch and had him over for lunch 2 times in 2 weeks. Someone said to not invite him so often because he is going to feel obligated to return the favor.
I was thinking, "obligated because of some pre-cooked sliced ham and au'gratin potatoes from a box?" What am I missing?
SD I hope none of this discussion bothers you in anyway.
