My H would take issue with it if I met up with a male gay or not. You never know if you will be the one that temps them to the other side in his opinion. Plus he is just insecure period. I have a couple of girlfriends that are bi and he likes them but for me to spend time with them without his company is problematic also.

SD sounds simply beautiful from your discription.

Might want to leave that info out if you talk to BB though Lou. But I give you credit for worrying about what she would think under the circumstances.