Quote: Regardless, after due deliberation with your wife, if she still thinks that you shouldn't, then you should strongly consider her request.
NOP. First let me say, So glad to see you back on the forum and happy to have you post on my thread.
You have a point that I had anticipated would be as you wrote. That would put a the stop to the SD meeting. BB's reaction would be a Ms. HairDog but on the lite side.
Like others have said, there there are people I would like to meet but would not do so, strictly for appearances sake. A divorced Jenny type person would be too much, not that I or a Jenny type would do anything. I have always ben very formal/proper around men and women and have had the belief that for anything more than public social skill to be enguaged in, the other female had to be marriage material and consider me marriage material too. Maybe that is too much information and does not apply. I suppose what counts is what is right. I saw what happens to dabblers. No for me it is in or out when it comes to anything more that business/friend type meetings.
Quote: I think you would have a great time with SD, and I believe that you are safe with her.
I am the safety King too NOP. I would not let anything unsafe happen. That goes for wild ski trips, jumping out of airplanes, car rides, or excessive drinking, (anything more than 1 is over my limit). No piging out on food either. You see I am not the life of the party. I am the count on Lou guy, always have been like that.
Quote: I happen to know a young man that thinks she is of fine, upright and trustworthy stock.
I gathered the same thing by her writing style and what she was and was not willing to consider is some advice given to her by other posters. I see SD as a very steady, on course person, with P as her goal.
My post is getting a little off track. SD offered me a tour of the area and that is what is to be considered here.
