Hey, Lou, I understand your uncertainty. I've met several friends from the boards (including CSW!) They've all been either straight women or men. I'd be very hesitant to meet other dykes (stubborn or otherwise). GGB is absolutely right about playing with fire. Bad idea.
I trust that you'll do the right thing for you. (Though, IMO, it would be good for you to spend a little time with a vegetarian. )
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