Re NOP
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I am certainly not telling you to cheat

I am not physically into cheating but do have to reign in some of my thoughts.

She comes from a POV that she has biologically aged faster/more than me and if we were from similar biologically pre dispositioned stock, I would have lost interest in sex. BB also suggest I got younger somehow. Trouble is, she has all the relatives that live to be 90 to 100. My relatives die in their late 70 or early 80's.

BB is also 2 years older than me and says "wait till you are XX, you will be/think like I me.
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there are consequences for her choices. She should be made aware of that.

My first consequence has been to do more by myself and will go on vacation without her.

A question for NOP and the morality police related to other friends that hapen to be female in this case:
If I stop and see SD in NY, she shows me the effects of past glaciations, we swap some small talk, is that stepping out of bounds? I know BB would see it as something I should not do. This is one question that I have been thinking about. Any opinions?

SD posted her e-mail but I have to decide what is appropriate before I contact her stating what I will do. Wanting to stop and see her part of the country is not the same as doing it.

My inclination is to see her and say nothing to BB but when I run for president of the US, some "muck raker" will show SD and me at McDonalds on their surveillance videotape. (dramatized for the movies) You guys know what happens next, I lose my dog catcher job.

Maybe SD is vegetarian and does not go to Mickey D's. I hear the area is wine country so maybe I have to up my classiness and go some place normal people go for a lunch/dinner. J/K

SD this is about me, not you. You are cool. I hope you are comfortable with what I am asking. I want to run the ideas through my conservative filters, ala my old thread titles "Doing the right thing"

Lou