Thanks JM and Wllowwlk,

It was a one-sided expression of exasperation, and it felt good to not get into that unproductive back-n-forth.

I must admit that I did feel frustrated, as I was interpreting it as stemming from the same resentment, hypocrisy, and unforgiveness that I had seen in the latter years of our M. Your interpretation of my merely not fitting her expectations is a good alternative that leaves me feeling less "stuck" in the past, and better able to stay present and future oriented. Thank you!

Will do - regarding S6's gift for his mommy.

Merry Christmas, fellow DBers! Merry Christmas, Divorced but not Done Forum! Merry Christmas, you old Savings and Loan! <Gabe in his best Jimmy Stewart voice>

As perfectly exemplified in the arrival of the Christ child to the world, hope springs eternal and illuminates a very bright future, even in the darkest of hours. May this new year find each of us with bountiful peace and happiness.

Gabriel


God heals the broken-hearted (Psalm 147:3)

Me: 44
W: 40
Separated 8/2011

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