Ha! Funny, JM. I'm finding myself attracted to women with some signs of maturity. Not that maturity is age-related, as there are plenty of silver-haired fools in the world.
At the request of my IC, I created a list of desired and undesired characteristics in a partner. Desired: Intelligent Attractive Active/Fit - active participation in events, not merely a spectator Independent Goal-directed, with some accomplishment Experience/learning regarding longterm Rs, M Child-friendly Warm Nurturant Balance b/t Giver/Taker Optimistic Sexually at Ease/confident in Femininity Experience with IC Music lover Child friendly Must like dogs
Undesired: Materialistic/Overconsumptive Pessimism Overly Rigid Inability to forgive/apologize Lack of spiritual focus Can drink me under the table Hair shorter/sparser that mine. Won't try to dance Current incarceration Desire limited to U.S. entry/citizenship
Food for thought: What are you looking for in a partner?
How likely is it that your XS/WAS fits your rule-ins/rule-outs?
Over the past 1-2 months, I must say that XW is starting some movement toward the desired directions. But its going to take her some time, and very consistent effort to make lasting changes. Time will tell...
Meanwhile, I plan to have a swell time during tonight's date.
I'm finding myself attracted to women with some signs of maturity. Not that maturity is age-related, as there are plenty of silver-haired fools in the world. 
