Gabe,

Um, if I may be so bold (and when have I ever been shy? ), to delicately broach your libido problem...well,...ummm....errr...you know, there is always self-pleasure.

I'm a hearty proponent of that! I think it helps all of us keep things in perspective and helps us prevent mistakes or choices we may later regret.

Stay warm down there...and send something warm our way!

M

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